In 2023, more than 16,000 teenagers in Colorado were involved in car accidents, averaging 57 per day. This resulted in 61 teen drivers being killed in traffic crashes, which is a 53% increase from the previous year. Driving gives them freedom and responsibility, but let’s face it—it also comes with serious risks. In fact, the CDC says car crashes are one of the leading causes of death for teens in the U.S. That’s why having an open, proactive conversation about safe driving is so important. It can not only save lives but also set them up with good habits for the future.
Let’s talk about how to tackle this important topic.
Start Early
Even before your teen is ready to get behind the wheel, start laying the groundwork for good driving habits. Show them what responsible driving looks like—stay focused, buckle up, and follow the rules of the road. Teens tend to copy what they see, so being a good role model behind the wheel can make a big difference.
Talking about driving safety isn’t something you do just once and call it good. Keep the conversation going! Encourage your teen to open up about their thoughts, fears, or questions about driving. Make it a judgment-free zone so they feel safe sharing mistakes or uncertainties—they’ll be much more likely to come to you when they need help.
Discuss the Dangers
Discussing the risks of unsafe driving with your teen is crucial. Here are some key points to cover, supported by real-world statistics:
- Distracted Driving: Activities like texting, using social media, or eating while driving significantly increase the risk of accidents. In 2022, over 3,300 people were killed and approximately 289,000 were injured in crashes involving distracted drivers. Teen Driver Source
- Speeding: Adhering to speed limits and adjusting speed for weather or road conditions is vital. Speeding reduces a driver’s ability to react to hazards and increases the severity of crashes. In 2021, speeding was a contributing factor in 29% of all traffic fatalities. Forbes
- Impaired Driving: Driving under the influence of alcohol, drugs, or even while drowsy impairs judgment and reaction times. In 2020, about 2,800 teens aged 13–19 were killed in motor vehicle crashes, with a significant number involving impaired driving. CDC
- Seatbelt Use: Wearing a seatbelt is one of the most effective ways to save lives and reduce injuries in crashes. Seat belts prevent drivers and passengers from being ejected during a crash. More than 3 out of 4 people who are ejected during a crash die from their injuries. Teen Driver Source
Sharing these statistics with your teen can help them understand the real-world consequences of unsafe driving behaviors and encourage them to adopt safer habits.
Establish Rules and Expectations
Create a family driving agreement that outlines your teen’s responsibilities and your expectations. Include rules such as:
- No cellphone use while driving.
- A curfew for driving at night.
- A limit on the number of passengers allowed.
- Immediate reporting of accidents or traffic violations.
- Have a policy where your teen feels safe calling for a ride, if needed.
Consequences for breaking these rules should be clear and consistent.
Use Resources
Leverage resources like driving schools, safety apps, and online tools. Many organizations offer teen-focused safe driving programs, and some insurance companies provide discounts for completing these courses.
Practice Together
Spend time in the car with your teen, providing constructive feedback as they drive. Practice in various conditions—day and night, rain and snow—so they feel confident and prepared.
Lead by Example
Your teen is watching you, even when you think they aren’t. Avoid risky behaviors like speeding or road rage, and always follow the rules of the road. Your actions speak louder than words.
Conclusion
Talking to your teen about safe driving is one of the most important conversations you’ll have as a parent. Remember, this is an ongoing dialogue—keep checking in and supporting them as they gain experience behind the wheel. Safe habits can save lives!
If you or someone you know has questions about teen driving safety or has been impacted by a car accident, don’t hesitate to reach out. At Debbie Taussig Law, we’re here to help. Contact us today for guidance and support—your family’s safety is our priority. Call us today at 303-442-0176
